Unfortunately, for many marriages divorce is inevitable. There comes a time when a couple has to decide if staying together is "worth it". There are many factors that lead to a divorce. Surprisingly, I have recently discovered the state you live in is an indication of the success rate of your marriage. To view an interesting article that discusses the divorce rates according to States click here.
Divorce is a word that is associated with mixed emotions. For some, a divorce triggers deep-seated emotions and pain. For others, a divorce is a reason to rent a party bus and celebrate with their closest friends--it is an exciting, new chapter in life. Regardless of how an individual views divorce, it is a process that an individual should not enter into alone. If you are considering a divorce, then I urge you to find someone you can depend on or find a support system.
Divorce doesn't indicate failure; divorce may be a step in the right direction. Honestly, the end of a chapter indicates the beginning of a new chapter. Wisdom teaches you that "sometimes the right path isn't the easiest one" Grandmother Willow, Pocahontas.